Good Pain and Good Grief
When thinking about pain, it has a negative connotation with it. Pain is bad, pain is this horrible feeling that we never want to feel which creates this fear of it coming into our life. In relation to grief, pain is what comes with grieving. Therefore, that comes wit h fear and negative thought s . However, when reading Michael Cholbi “Finding the Good in Grief”, he challenges that belief by arguing that pain is a “much more complicated context than we recognized”. Pain is valued as an essential to humans , we must feel pain. A lot of people have a bad feeling about pain therefore when it comes, they don’t have a good experience . This is because i f you believe that the pain you will feel during grief or just feeling pain in general will be horrible, then th at pain will be. According to Cholbi , pain must be associated with a positive attitude. Once it is, pain won’t be that awful feeling that we all dread...